Except this is a game --- nothing to do with real life in any way ----
Videogames are an escape from real life .... you get to pretend to be chief of a village, who's main way of looking after his people is to go out raiding those who are weaker than them ....
Play it how you want --- but I prefer winning to being nice, when it comes to a frippery like an app that I play on my phone..... otherwise, if i wanted to "play at being nice" I'd be playing farmville or something with twinkling pink ponies in it......



