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    Quote Originally Posted by yrt78681 View Post
    Unless they follow you, you will eventually fall off of their helper tab. If they follow you, you can delete them from your follower tab. This will pass, but there will always be raiders.
    How do you delete a follower?

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    Go to your followers tab, hold the follower you wish to abandon and a red box should appear. Press the x and a confirmation pop-up will appear (check this since you could possibly try to delete the wrong one :P). Confirm and he/she/it is removed .
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jlmlulu View Post
    Not 34 bins, 34 x16 crates.... And yesterday was a lighter day And also intercepted trades. No she is not a Facebook friend or Game Center friend nor is she a follower. Last time I helped her was almost a month ago. I find it really weird too. I always help whomever I can stranger, neighbor or follower and the irritating part is she has never helped once. Yes... Followers even strangers can buy out my whole shop and I would be happy to see it.

    I was not talking about when I advertise an one person buys out my whole shop... This makes me happy, but for instance tonight I needed help with my boat and she constantly bought out bought out the entire shop three times in a row. Mind you did not help one of my crates but made it nearly impossible for anyone else to help me. I don't have any diamonds so I have to wait 5 min to advertise again. Grr
    This is what some players don't understand. It's not about being a control freak or controlling who you sell too, it's about a lot of things. Having stuff in your shop for neighbors, friends and followers as well as getting the help when you need it by keeping things advertised. If a player constantly cleans the same player out over and over again that is stalking behavior and kinda freaky. I personally don't mind the follower tab but if a player wants to block another for whatever reasons they should have the option to bump them off the helper tab.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sanbantai View Post
    Go to your followers tab, hold the follower you wish to abandon and a red box should appear. Press the x and a confirmation pop-up will appear (check this since you could possibly try to delete the wrong one :P). Confirm and he/she/it is removed .
    Awesome sauce thanks for the info.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jlmlulu View Post
    The same thing has been happening to me for weeks now. It actually was my previous neighborhood of which I left because a girl in their was such a taker. I constantly found myself helping her and never was a favor returned.

    I'm level 50 and have always sold unique nice things in my shop I used to have 20 followers now I'm down to 10 because I can't sell as many nice things anymore. When someone is constantly buying out your shop it tends to get quite irritating. When I say constantly I mean for example today I decided to count and she bought out my shop 34 times.

    This girl is not a follower friend and it's already been a month since I last helped her don't know how she is finding me.

    I even changed my farm name to *****( name of girl)stop stalking me but this made it worse. Good luck to u sorry u have to deal with it I know it's not fun.
    I am sorry this is happening to you and is such a bother to you.

    If you left your NH on good terms can you kik or PM your neighbors there and ask them to speak to her in chat? Or rejoin that NH and tell her directly to please leave you alone -- or fill her silo with wheat at max until she goes away.

    I think changing your farm name has ticked her off and now she is "punishing" you -- how about changing your farm name again to something like "Sorry [name] - happy HD" and see if that stops the anger from her end.

    And again -- it is what you make of it: If this is what is happening to you now, wheat wheat wheat, enjoy your roomier barn and silo at her expense while taking her money 36 coins at a time too. Good luck

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    I agree. Changing your farm name to call someone out or to demand some behavior is going to make it much worse. A lot of people don't like it when you call folks out or tell them what to do. It just doesn't work and you run the risk of even more people doing what you want that one person to stop.

    Remember when someone says this is a game, they are not just saying it is ONLY a game but that it is a game which encourages competition and people who like to compete and win! Whether you keep score or not, others do. Just look at the crowds of folks who try to get their group or farm listed in the top contributors.

    Think about it. Would you tell an medal winning Olympic skater to not do that triple jump so that someone else can benefit and win a medal. What does the first one need two for right???!!!

    Would you tell that football player to share the ball so that a slower player could try for the goal? Or the top scoring basketball star to pass the ball to someone who just started the game? Try telling a racer to slow down so that one of your friends can win. Sounds kind of ridiculous doesn't it. But we don't hesitate to tell someone not to buy the fifteen jams you just dangled in front of his face when they can be the ones that will allow him to finish that 12 the consecutive boat. Just so someone they don't know can have a shot at them?

    Yes I know, this is not the Olympics or professional sports but by the responses that these threads bring out, you'd think it was. I remember the Olympics when I was younger and the skater's scores were displayed by each judge holding up a card with a number on it. I also remember quite the controversy when a particular judge showed her preference for her own country by scoring everyone but her own skater way lower than they deserved. She wanted her "friend" to win. Everyone deplored her methods. It wasn't fair, everyone said. They were her scores (substitute premium products here) and she wanted them to go to her friends first.

    I hate competition. It makes me nervous. I therefore don't participate in it. I don't care who wins. But I understand when others do. I also understand when my kids and grand kids get mad when I Let them win. They want to do it on their own. Maybe if we try not to think that our friends count on us sooooo much that they will leave if we don't help them win. Maybe if we understand that when other competitive people take advantage of the opportunities we give them by putting goods in our shop, we can not get so worked up. I am not saying you shouldn't do what you need to do to discourage the other player from winning. That's also part of the game. But to demand changes to the game to make it harder for others to win or easier for those we want it easy for, isn't much different from that judge I mentioned. Should we demand that it be easier for a batter to get a home run just because we don't like how hard it is for our favorite player or ourselves?


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    Quote Originally Posted by Jlmlulu View Post
    Not 34 bins, 34 x16 crates.... And yesterday was a lighter day And also intercepted trades. No she is not a Facebook friend or Game Center friend nor is she a follower. Last time I helped her was almost a month ago. I find it really weird too. I always help whomever I can stranger, neighbor or follower and the irritating part is she has never helped once. Yes... Followers even strangers can buy out my whole shop and I would be happy to see it.

    I was not talking about when I advertise an one person buys out my whole shop... This makes me happy, but for instance tonight I needed help with my boat and she constantly bought out bought out the entire shop three times in a row. Mind you did not help one of my crates but made it nearly impossible for anyone else to help me. I don't have any diamonds so I have to wait 5 min to advertise again. Grr
    Perhaps you should put crappy stuff out like I did. I placed tons of wooly stuff and wool for about two days (stacked a whole lot outside my loom for a long time) and kept advertising all the goodies and even common items like cornbread so the person didn't even get to see it. I'm glad to report that the person hasn't returned since. I've only lost 1 follower during the time I did this but I can't figure out who left so it's probably a newbie. That's alright with me. No need to worry that this may upset your friends or followers. I was initially apprehensive too. But those who have known you long enough won't leave just because you start selling crappy stuff for a few days. Perhaps you should give it a shot and let us know what happens. Oh and yes I think using your farm name to tell someone off or to demand a behaviour from them may come across as somewhat distasteful and think many people don't like it which is why it has never crossed my mind to do something like that.
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    You hold down the little picture icon and it will turn red press again and it will say : are you sure you want to delete ...

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    Quote Originally Posted by rachrabbit View Post
    Perhaps you should put crappy stuff out like I did. I placed tons of wooly stuff and wool for about two days (stacked a whole lot outside my loom for a long time) and kept advertising all the goodies and even common items like cornbread so the person didn't even get to see it. I'm glad to report that the person hasn't returned since. I've only lost 1 follower during the time I did this but I can't figure out who left so it's probably a newbie. That's alright with me. No need to worry that this may upset your friends or followers. I was initially apprehensive too. But those who have known you long enough won't leave just because you start selling crappy stuff for a few days. Perhaps you should give it a shot and let us know what happens. Oh and yes I think using your farm name to tell someone off or to demand a behaviour from them may come across as somewhat distasteful and think many people don't like it which is why it has never crossed my mind to do something like that.
    I will but even when I am advertising she will buy me out , that's when it irritates me because because I have to wait to ask for help again with my boat. I let u know though .

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    I dont often ask for help, so my last helpers list dont change often, which give me a chance to help the ones who helped me.

    However i have just noticed a farm drop of my last helpers list during the last hours. This was a farm that i have not had a chance yet to help back, so i have been watching out for a chance.

    The farm is no gone, and I have NOT asked for help at all today.

    maybee supercell have changed how the last helper tap works in the update, have anyone else noticed this ?
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