Stalker! Please help....

[meonhoc]

I dont often ask for help, so my last helpers list dont change often, which give me a chance to help the ones who helped me.

However i have just noticed a farm drop of my last helpers list during the last hours. This was a farm that i have not had a chance yet to help back, so i have been watching out for a chance.

The farm is no gone, and I have NOT asked for help at all today.

maybee supercell have changed how the last helper tap works in the update, have anyone else noticed this ?

When was that farm helped you?
It seems that farm dropped after 2 weeks (14 days), I'm trying to keep track but always lost the count and can't remember the date.

[Mimk]

It guess it is about 2 weeks ago, but i cant be sure, its been a busy month

I have not noticed farms dropping of the list before, without me asking for help and adding others. but it does seem there is a limit to how long someone you help can keep you on their list.

[Cricks3]

Well, this topic has been beaten to death and this thread been around Robin's barn multiple times. For a while it was a bit nasty, then it got civil and I gave it a chance. Then it got testy again. Even though it's now relatively civil, I'm closing it before it becomes testy again. It should have been closed a while ago but we mods can't be everywhere all the time.

This is a topic that has no answer because everyone has different expectations of what they want from the game and what they want to put into the game. Everyone has different goals for themselves. Everyone has different personalities, some are empathic and extreme givers, others are all about me, others are just competitive, and on and on and on and on. Everyone plays differently and our expectations, goals, and style of play changes as we move on in levels and get more involved with the games features and the folks we play with.

Before I close this, I'd like to quote the simplest, yet most complete and successful advice regarding this subject no matter what your views on it:

...I still think the best defense for <an aggressive shopper > is not to let them bug you -- your attitude is the only thing about this game that you can COMPLETELY control

So, since you can't control another player whose style upsets your way of play, control things to an extent by adjusting your attitude. If you can find ways to make their style of play work in your favor until they decide to go elsewhere, great. At the least, simply take a deep breath, exhale, and remind yourself that this is a game and not your real life. You can even back away and not play for a few days without losing much, except maybe the "aggressive shopper".