I've just realized that I've been playing this game for roughly 6 years, with maybe a year off in that period only due to lack of internet. It started out when the 2nd gen 2013 Nexus 7 came out and was given to me as a christmas gift. That christmas holiday week I saw many ads on TV of Clash of Clans and into the new year of 2014. It was the first app of very few I installed on the Nexus 7 and the only one I ever really used.
I never really thought of a video game as being an addiction because you tend to finish the game. However with this game it's different. This game has a structure to it that conditions you in a way to never want to leave and to keep coming back. I don't mean to put any blame on Supercell at least not in large part. All they did was create a fun albeit slow paced time consuming and sometimes frustrating game that they continue to refresh with content updates. And well that unexpected lucky 3 star can feel quite rewarding.
The Lure:
The game feels new and adventurous like you're discovering something for the first time. The general chat when it still existed gave isolated players a sense of connection to the outside world, but mostly a place for all to gripe, vent, bully, or troll. The game has a strategic aspect to it so that you feel like you're using your brain. It was the new cool and popular thing, even celebrities were playing it like in the ads. Everyone's doing it.
The Never Ending Chase:
That illusion of ever maxing out your base. The ever increasing upgrade times with the new levels. The long wait for troop training and hero recovery. The never ending next button in search of loot to upgrade expensive buildings or units. Oh! The walls! Can't forget the walls and how they aren't released completely because then you might actually max out your base and game over and quit. But! Hold on. New content and update just in. The chase is not over.
The Nearly Impossible Quit:
It gets increasingly impossible to quit the longer you play. You meet clan mates and form a clan. Are you just going to quit on them and the clan? What about all the time you invested? Are you going to throw that all away? What about all the money you invested? Me personally I never paid money but I paid with time. Except on my 2nd donor account I purchased the kingly offer. Do you really want to leave the game when you're so close to maxing out?
Conclusion: Remember, if it's hard to quit, it might be addictive.
How ever you got into this game, you probably never thought you would invest this much of yourself into it. You figured it was a harmless game. But this game dangles a carrot in front of you to chase and if you ever do get that carrot, well a new carrot in the form of new content and updates takes it's place. Maybe you want to quit but what about all that effort you put in to chasing that carrot.
If you are someone who is avoiding social situations or difficult things or avoiding responsibilities, this game will completely enable you and drag you in with no exits in sight.
Some people might say that the game brings enjoyment to you, but compared to what? Something stressful?
I think the real question might be whether the game brings some form of meaning to your life. This game is only a game, the real game is life, real life.
The ways to quit that I can think of are quite limited. There's quitting cold turkey but you might relapse. You can try to come to the realization as to what the game is structured to be and lose taste for it. You can find some other interest that is less addictive and has a definitive ending to it. Whatever the method you need to strengthen your will.
If you can keep this game in check, by all means play it. But if you find that it has a hold over you, you need to reflect on yourself. Because the structure of this game, at least to me, I find it to be an addictive structure.
So my final thought is this. What ever addictions or distractions there are that you face, make sure you recognize them for what they are. Move those non-consequential things to the side and grab life by the horns and ride it hard into the next day. By that, make the most of your day with what you have.
Thanks for reading,
Self-proclaimed Shirker working on being an Ex.
P.S. Apologies. This rant is more for me than for anyone else.