I’m glad I can bring a bit of joy to at least one person’s life.... I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, if you remember that when I’m making a large amount of my posts I’m giggling to myself like a drunken schoolgirl then you’ll probably see them in a different light.
I joined here 5 years ago and never intended to hang around that long. All I wanted to do was ask where trophies came from because I couldn’t work out how anyone had any... but I persevered. My posts have generally remained in the same style over the years, more self deprecating than anything else - if I can’t laugh at myself then how can I laugh at anyone else?
I don’t do social media. I did have a Facebook account many years ago but the way people use it terrifies me. I remember going out one evening many years ago and I was introduced to some new folks, friends of friends. I think I’d shared about 5 words with this one woman when she came up to me about an hour later and chimed ‘I’ve sent you a friend request’... really?! To me that says ‘I don’t know you, but I want to be able to go back through years of your life and look at photos of you and you son. And partners of dubious appearance’. Don’t worry, there is a point to this story....
I like this forum for interacting with people. To me, I like a certain anonymity as it adds more mystery. If I have you as a Facebook friend then I know pretty much everything about you already. But here I learn more and more about people with what they’re willing to share. We all need our privacy and this site is my social media.
I’ve gotten to know a couple of people over the years here and talk to them off forum. Never in my life would I have thought that. In fact, I’m just going out to meet a forum member for a beer... however he’s only on the forum because I told him to and he’s my brother....
So thank you all for keeping me entertained on a daily basis. There are some gems of threads here in between a lot of dross, and it’s threads like this that remind me that we can have a debate as adults and there is still some respect and common decency here. Until I refer to someone as a ‘stultifyingly ill-informed moron’ and get the thread closed.![]()



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Flirt is a word you can only use with someone very close to you which kind of takes all the fun out of it. 