I think you found the right words because you spoke from your heart. Since I last posted in this thread a few days ago, I'm shell-shocked by the friendly fire which has transpired in the past 48 hours. And yes, while reading the posts, I'm wearing a helmet like the one in my avatar.
I think it's safe to emerge from my foxhole for now.
Indeed, if downvoting is retained for the FRS, I suggest the recipients of negative comments be allowed to see the identities of those who left them because it's the only check against those of us who need to exercise self-restraint. If we post negative comments, we should've the conviction to stand behind them instead of sending them anonymously, IMO.
Neutrals could mean someone upvoted or downvoted your posts. Since they wrote less than 50 posts in the forums, they won't be able to increase or decrease your reputation points. You know it's an upvote because they don't need to leave a comment. However, when you see comments, then it's a downvote because leaving comments is mandatory after clicking the Disapproval Button.