No responses needed anymore. I just left the clan. Thank you all who posted.
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No responses needed anymore. I just left the clan. Thank you all who posted.
You are telling them you are going to take a break and you swear when you come back you will cpme right in that clan
Give them the finger and leave.
I'm not doing that though. I'm going to another clan.Quote:
Originally Posted by Calin2015
I understood that. Excuses.Quote:
Originally Posted by ClashOn4Life
I can't do that man.. I'll feel horrible.Quote:
Originally Posted by Calin2015
Just tell them. If they are a decent bunch they will wish you well and leave the door open. If they are not then you should not be worrying about it.
Just tell them the truth. Maybe your off farming or to a war clan?
If you have a good relation to some in there, may tell them reasons you have to leave - probably they understand.
Maybe you tell them you want to get to a new level, may you take a visit now and than for a war.
If you are 'just there', just leave.
Tell them you want to see what the "leave" button does.
Just start donating wallbreakers and goblins and maybe they'll kick you out.
I simply told mine the truth. If you are going to another clan there must be one or more reasons why. Those reasons are good enough to get you to leave your current clan. That means they are pretty compelling reasons. Simply state what those are and then leave. You can choose to leave the moment you state them (if you really don't want to hear your clan's response) or you can wait around for a little while to see what they say (I chose the latter with my clan).Quote:
Originally Posted by ClashOn4Life
This is the best way. Well said.Quote:
Originally Posted by erethizon
when I left a clan that I'd been with for a long time due to irreconcilable differences with a certain CO, I used Bilbo's farewell speech from LOTR, seemed to sum everything up nicely.
If anybody else in your clan visits here then there's a good chance they already know ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by ClashOn4Life
hopefully you use an external chat app? Keep the negative stuff like reasons for leaving out of the main chat if possible. Keep things positive and let them know you hope the door will be open if you choose to return. Good leaders will PM you for details on why you're leaving. Say goodbye, share some fond memories and leave on a positive note!
It works! I've been in similar situations through this and another long term mobile game over the last 3 years. It's all in how you put things. Let them know how much fun you've had with them and offer to keep in touch if you can.
I too had been in a clan for over the year, it was only the clan I had ever been in. I just said I think I might be leaving the clan, we had some good times (Metioned a few) then left.
Make a new account, leave that in your old clan, then you don't have to say goodbye. Depends why you're leaving really. I've left two minis in my old clan and my main has moved on - that way I can try out different ways of playing but still get to hang out with my friends.
This.Quote:
Originally Posted by kirky74
:smirk::smirk:
Lol ive been in your situation. I was in a clan for almost a year. I wanted to leave and eventually did. I was co leader there and many people tried inviting me back the moment i left and i went to my clan i currently have rightnow. Just lurk around for a few days and leave, its exactly what i did and explain your reasons before you leave, all will work out in the end!
u ll miss them , & u ll back
it's a curse , u can't change clans
Two things that you can do are:
- Explain why you are leaving, say your goodbyes, and leave.
- Just leave without saying anything. Maybe donate someone a high level troop as a leaving gift before you leave.
I've done this before; I know how it feels. It's hard...
just leave? no harm could come to it. If u dont want to be an a**, then just say that u r leaving for whatever reason u r.
Just be honest, tell them you are leaving as you wish to experience different clans etc. I hate it when long standing members leave, but it happens. I hate it more when people just go with no explanation or say be back later etc.
Thanks for all the friendship, growth, and fun, but want to try a clan that is more focused on (fill in blank here), and it wouldn't be fair to expect this clan to change what works for the majority of our members.
This is probably your best solution.Quote:
Originally Posted by basilbrush303
I was in this current situation with my clan, granted I haven't been in it as long as you have been in yours. I filled the clan chat with messages explaining why I was going to be leaving. Told them all that I will be visiting from time to time, went over all the good times, even the bad, how everyone has been there, etc... They were very understanding. I gave them a 2 week notice, letting them know when I will officially be leaving. They all thanked me for the help and my service to the clan, also let me keep CO until I leave. Just let them know your reasons and they will understand, if they don't, then I don't know what to tell you.
Just tell them the truth about why you are leaving. If you were a longtime, respectable member of that clan, they would probably respect that decision because they want to wish you the best.
LOL.Quote:
Originally Posted by TheGurgeMan
Tell them the reason why you want to leave..simple yet it is the best thing to do IMO
Why do you wanna leave anyways? For 1 year in clan surely you made some friends in there...
Tell them the truth, and that their is no hard feelings. Considering you've been with them for a year, I'd expect that they'd wish you good luck as you go and leave the door open.
Don't do what one of my elders just did.
1 year of clashing and poof. not even a goodbye.
We had someone call him out for being racist in the clan chat and poof. gone.
It's for the best, racism should not be tolerated in any clan.
Just tell them the truth. Be nice about it, and move on. I left my clan and took a bunch of guys with me. They were mad, but they will let us back if we want. Honesty is the best policy.
Not sure why u wanted a goodbye.... I would have kicked his tail to the curb instantly.Quote:
Originally Posted by Bighundy
Just tell them the truth. That's what I did (I contacted them) when I decided not to re-join my old clan when I came back to the game November last year.
do not leave, your friends will miss you
They were a nice bunch.
They understood that the clan was dying, and that I was not a fan of inactivity.
They were quite polite about it and always accept me back for a small visit.
If you mean as much to them as they do to you, they'll do the same (assuming they're not the type who say, "Stay with us permanently or not at all. We only have room for the devoted.").
And with that post, I take my leave of this title in favor of my Queen.
I know I can never go back, and I am happy.
I'll keep walking along my path, and never look back.
I'll keep chasing the Sun. :)
Just tell them you won Americas next top model... When I have to kick long time members I just tell them "You're no longer in the running for Americas next top model." (Of course I explain to them outside chat why.)
"Your face looks like a sewer rat with a cat lip."Quote:
Originally Posted by Drackos
pretend to say in global that you are leaving your clan,and you accidentally,posted this on the clan chat...
Just tell them the real reason of your leaving kindly.. i'm sure they'll understand whatever reason you stated. And hopefully one day when you decided to visit them again, they'll kindly welcome you back..
Well i'm glad that i left my old clan in a good way, that few days ago when I decided to visit them for the first time, they still remembered me and even warmly welcomed me back after 11 months long since the departing. Promised them to pay another visit to spend my birthday with them soon..
Anw, good luck OP!
Aren't you telling them by posting this thread?Quote:
Originally Posted by ClashOn4Life
Aren't your clanmates forumers? If not, tell them to read this thread.
p.s your clan name, ign, etc.. are on your signature.
Quote:
Originally Posted by ClashOn4Life
If the rest of the clan has the character that you do, they will support your decision. Tell them straight, I have had a few leave my clan on occasion the same way, we remember them in a positive way.
Just tell them you made a post on the forums if they have any questions XD
Tell them the truth as to why you are leaving. You can always go back and stop by for a visit with them.Quote:
Originally Posted by ClashOn4Life
You tell them why. They deserve a valid explanation for your absence. :thumbsup:
Tell them i challenged you and you are coming to my clan to raid and post replays to see who is the best then come join my clan they will check you weren't telling lies after 3 days in my clan i will see that you are better then me and i will kick you :p
I did it. Luckily they understood and didn't try to stop me. I am in Ex Elysium now, a hardcore war clan.
Well, you just gotta be honest with them. I'd expect you to be really close with them since you've been with them for a year... so eventually they will understand. Just tell them you would like to move on, and thank them for everything, and maybe you can still keep in touch with them outside of clash.Quote:
Originally Posted by ClashOn4Life
I already left... :pQuote:
Originally Posted by jemstone
Ik OP is out of clan, but this is pretty funny ♥♥♥♥Quote:
Originally Posted by dansta31
Haha!Quote:
Originally Posted by TheGurgeMan
Doah! Y u no join Aevum, hwhy?!?!Quote:
Originally Posted by ClashOn4Life
:P
Good luck mate!
If you have been in it for a year
you probably are a co leader
send a clan message and leave.
Aa for the clan message:
It's has been a long journey with you guys.
I had so much fun.
Thanks for helping me achieve my dreams.
Now, I need to leave and see the world from another window.
But, always know that the window of this clan was, is and will always be the best.
Thanks again and Clash ON.
Keep up the good kicking DrackosQuote:
Originally Posted by Drackos