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Kick him.no doubt about it.if the guys got level 1 golems like u earlier said than he is in no way whatsoever a 'strong th9'.u can get lvl 2 golems at th8.with such a low lvl golem at th9 I very much doubt he is in much of a position 2 dish out attack advice eitherQuote:
Originally Posted by jeezig12
1) I will admit I got carried away with the archer thing, but I was a bit angry at his wall breaker donations and what he said to me the night before.Quote:
Originally Posted by Deadlyxda
2) As I've said, we don't always do mirror wars. We do it ONLY when EVERYONE (or at least an overwhelming majority)feels comfortable with it. We will help those who don't know how to attack their mirror.
3) Maybe I am the only one who feels this way... But I am ok with donating things such as max wizards, max archers, and whatnot, BUT I feel a little annoyed when it comes to things such as golems. I really don't know how to explain it. Maybe I am annoyed that he requests for golems outside of war and I have given him level 3, only for him to dump it and request for a max golem. Like, at least be grateful that I gave you something much better than what you have... do you get me?
OP, grow a set.
Or are you going to wait until this guy is a coleader......
:facepalm:
Nonsense, I am a woman, and I have been running a clan for 2 years, half of my clanmates have been with me for that long, the rest for a year or so. If someone leaves they always come back, some to do a war or two, and some stay for a longer period.Quote:
Originally Posted by Busku792
Every one knows I am the leader, no discussion there.
These sort of people ruin clans. As many people have said talk to your Leader privately and if she cannot see the reasons to get rid then it's either a matter of leaving the clan or talk to the person direct via kik, explain the issues you have and that if he doesn't sort himself out you will kick.
Tell the leader you can't tolerate the guy anymore and if he isn't kicked out you'll be forced to find another clan so you can start enjoying the game again. If you're really as close as you say your leader shouldn't think twice about kicking him.
Absolutely right.Quote:
Originally Posted by scanners107
New members dictating terms is poor form in my eyes. If his ways overstep the helpful constructive line then start polishing that boot.
Unless of course this is a case of the green eyed monster getting the better of you. New guy in town, standing tall and getting the attention you've so long been used to. Take a step back and review this situation is my advice...the root cause of these twisted knickers may rest a little closer to home my friend
Lol, I do not say a whole lot in clan chat. I request, donate, and help those asking for help if no one is around. Most of the interaction between the leader and I does not take place in the game. We still talk about everyday. I am not losing "attention" haha. I just do not like how he has been in the clan for 2 1/2 weeks and he is suddenly telling everyone who to attack, how attack, and when to attack. When you challenge him on something, he is so childish it is hilarious! He will defend and defend and defend until you stop challenging him. The best way I can explain him is like that kid who thinks he's never wrong and only he knows what is right. It is annoying, especially when a co leader says that we will be doing something and he proceeds to tell our members something else and if you call him out on it, you will get an arrogant comeback.Quote:
Originally Posted by CriPpLeR
If that's the case then kick the guy. The fallout from other clan mates might be rough but you can console yourself on the fact you've just landed a blow for humanity by dealing with a ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥.
Satisfaction guaranteed
Tell her straight up if she takes his side it's time to leave and if you don't want to break that friendship say im leaving I'll contact you on kik if you want leave comeback when "he's" gone 😄
Having actually read every response of this 11 page thread, here is my take.
There is something seriously wrong with your leader if she "falls in love" with this new guy because he is bossy and arrogant. As a co-LEADER, you and the other co-LEADERS need to tell her how silly she is being and how it is hurting the clan. There is no question about that. He is bringing you guys down and causing all the drama in the first place.
At the end of the day, you need to kick him. There is nothing for it. If your leader gets mad, let her get mad. You have the other co-leaders to back you up. If you need to have a conversation with her about kicking him so be it, but you NEED to kick him.
I'm also wondering the age group of your leader because this sounds like some kind of twisted high school crush she has.
I do not know why you guys think she's "in love" lol. She wants to keep him because defense wise, he is good and we don't have many like him. She is 29 years old and she would not fall in love with someone she has barely just met and has barely gotten to know. Pretty sure about that lol.Quote:
Originally Posted by CelestialWyrm
What's the name of you clan? Also how many members are there? Want to check out this new guys base
By reading this you are more concerned with losing a friend you talk to on kik rather than thinking what is best for your clan. I have never know a Co-Leader who as you put it "I do not say a whole lot in clan chat."Quote:
Originally Posted by jeezig12
Co-Leaders should have a big presence in the clan and especially for new members...
Regarding a Co-Leader tells him to do something and he doesn't do it is an instant kick to me unless he is explaining why such things shouldn't be happening.
Thumbs up for some great advice here
This is 12 pages long.
Either leave or stay.........
PM me mate will join you, im wanderer th9. Have level 24 king and level 20 queen. Level 4 golems, level 2 lava hound, level 6 balloons, maxed hogs, maxed witch, level 5 wizards. My defenses as that of middle th9 but have 150 level 10 walls and the rest are level 9 walls. Im not arrogant or like to give instructions etc but let's see...
Wow, what a great read. I think I get what's happening some of the forumer's aren't thinking about:
1. You clearly have a crush on this girl
2. You are in a "low level" clan and as such the requirements aren't nearly so high. You're a co but not chatty. She took someone who's essentially a noob and thinks he's awesome.
I'm a strong war attacker and I have no doubt you'll see my base and like what you see. PM me the name of your clan, I'll join for a little while just to straighten the lousy war stuff out and try to help the clan. In other news, my second th8 account has better troops then this guy.
I'll help you out, but best thing you can do is do the right thing. Stop getting on his level and start dealing with his issues.
Sounds like you and the other coleads need to man up. Dont let this girl control you to that level. I realize girls who clash are rare and therefore attractive to nerdy gamers. I also realize youve had very private conversations with her. But cmon man! One final talk and if she doesnt take your side i guess you need to admit you arent as close to her as you think...Quote:
Originally Posted by jeezig12
Move on....
Wow.....what a long thread..
It's been stated many times before, but the leader is particularly weak if you ask me. She should've kicked him the moment she knew about the wall breaker incident.
But I will say that I don't mind donating max troops for war. If it was for farming then that would be a problem, but we want everyone to do their best in war, so max troops SHOULD be requested. Also, the mirror strategy doesn't work all the time.
Yea, its a hard situation, but I'll give you my advice. Tell her its either you or him. She can't have both. If she truly values you as a friend she'll make the right choice. But if she chooses the other guy....well...the clan is like a sinking ship in that case. It's already enroute to the iceberg and is close to hitting it. Fix the issue while it's still fixable or don't be around when things go under.
BTW, what's your clan tag? Would love to have a peek at the clan. Thanks!
Why do I have a sinking suspicion that their is another side to this tale, and maybe somebody is a little jealous, some of the words you use are very possessive of your clan/leader. Reminds me of when friends lament over some girl that's with another guy. Of course she'd be better with you is what I always say, she clearly can't see how great you are as you cry about it from a distance. (rollseyes). Let it/her go. You're to clingy to a fictional situation. No offense intended but it's just a game.
Doesn't sound very complicated to me. Kicking him out on your own isn't going to do much good other than make your situation worse. If you don't want the guy to be an elder or think he's a bad member and needs to be kicked then state your case to your other Co-leaders and Leader. Give non personal reasons of why the player shouldn't be an elder or should be kicked. The second you make it about you not liking him because he gave you wall breakers or he argues with you or he took your girl it kills all of the credibility of your argument. If your clan council votes to keep him in his position despite your presentation then you can either humbly accept that decision or move on.
Best of luck.
If she's not a good leader and this bragging th9 will ruin your clan. Talk and have an agreement with your cos if worst happens have a unified decision. Form a mutiny its for the better of the whole clan and if she decided to stay with his friend. Form a clan a mature clan of yours