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Tell me how to? I just made an account today lol... sorry for my cluelessnessQuote:
Originally Posted by ChiefTub
IMO just link this topic to your leader!
Then let her to decide. If she dont kick him, you can kick him. end of the issue.
I dont like arrogant people even if they 3* a max th10 all time. This is just a game friendship and fun is more important than perks and 3*.
I know how you feel,
I have been in my clan for a year and I build strong bonds with my fellow clan mates. I have been co leader for around 4 months, and my nickname was "axeman" (Due to me not taking any ♥♥♥♥ from wrong donaters, non-team players, etc.) I would happily kick people out if the don't listen. Our clan was always active and loyal, we didn't even have to constantly remind people of rules because everyone was interested in the welfare of other members.
This changed recently, when our leader had a personality change. He suddenly became more obsessed about having a full clan than having a loyal clan. He stripped the rights of all elders and co leaders to kick people, telling us that only he must kick people. As a result our clan was full of Elders and Co's who are practically members.
So we carried on, not allowed to touch the kick button. Pretty soon we had a full clan of 50 members, of that 50 only about 25 were really loyal. The rest was people causing trouble and play selfishly, attacking for loot in war, donating wrong, etc. This put real strain under the loyal people. I could see the irritation in my fellow members, but the leader seemed to just ignore the cries of his members.
One day we found out that one of those trouble makers are using a mod to see traps etc. Since I have zero tolerance for people who ♥♥♥♥♥, I kicked him with immediate effect. Guess what happened...the leader kicked me out with a message "Not your call". I was highly disappointed in him, since he basically mentored me when I just joined. So I proceeded to send him a message giving him my two cents (In a nice way of course)
Luckily for me, the Co's and other members caused a big roar in the clan over him kicking me out. And soon enough he invited me back, but he never returned my Co to me. I am still sad that he would stoop so low as to kick someone who kicked a ♥♥♥♥er. I did loose some respect for him because of this, but I think it built up due to him taking in guys just for the sake of "having a full clan".
There is still an awkward atmosphere in the clan, eve though this happened around a 3 weeks ago. I think he realized what he did to not just me, but my fellow CoC buddies. We are practically back to a clan of around 30 loyal members, and he doesn't take as much ♥♥♥♥ from noobs now. He seems more willing to listen to what his clan says about members, and then choose if that member should be kicked or given a chance.
Luckily our clan is not totally smashed to the ground (Although we were mighty close to being disbanded I believe). We are working on rebuilding the trusts that were broken, and I think it is going well so far.
In summary, I know how it feels if your leader goes off the road with some new ideology. I believe she might be in "love' with this new guy and she won't easily kick him. I personally don't think that it is a good idea to be in a clan who has a female as a leader. Don't get me wrong, I am not a sexist. I just find that women often tend to get swayed a lot more by emotion, rather than thinking about it in a clear state of mind. You do get some great female leaders though! I know you built strong bonds as you have been in the clan for a year, so I won't tell you to "just" leave. It is your own choice, but chances are high that the clan might crash into the rocks. Maybe try and have an open and frank talk with her
1) these people aren't your friends, you'll never meet them and one day you'll switch clans, quit playing coc and never talk to them again. At best maybe rarely keep in touch via chat/fb. The people we game with online are just temporary acquaintances that you happen to share a common intrest with at this point in time. Don't over think it, play the game to make you happy.
2) Forcing people to attack mirrors and mirrors alone is a horrible strategy, he may be going about it wrong but he is right.
3) Use this as an opportunity to relax a little focus on what you want to, let her and the other Co's deal with him. People like that are needy. When he stops getting the attention he wants he will burn out, he will move on. Disassociate yourself a bit (proboly the healthiest choice... it's just a game.) In a few weeks the issue will solve it's self.
A woman cannot be a leader. Simple.
Kick him.
His heroes are weak. Walls mediocre. Prioritized defences too much while neglecting troops and walls. Gowipes and that requires him to atk someone lower then him for 3 stars in the war matchup.
In summary he not pulling his own weight in war and is a liability. Especially if he isn't getting along with clan leadership. It's important to remember that clans are only clans because of the people the leader is surrounded with. If u kick him because he isn't getting along with cos I see no problem. Gotta learn ur place sometimes.
Kick this guy out !
then speak to your leader and explaing the situation.
if she's really like you she will get it..
Good luck my frieand !
Wow, lot of pages here. Far too many.
1. 'Excuse me new guy. While we are always open to hearing new ideas, it is the leadership team that will make decisions'.
2. Feel free to ask for the very best for war, but farming you should have realistic expectations.
If everyone donates long cook high value troops all the time, then we won't all be making maximum progress.
3. Give me, or anyone else one more wallbreaker, you gone.
OP...shoulda kicked em ages ago, but those would be my proper grown up responses to all of their behaviour.
Sounds like you got a bit of the love-sick puppy about you for your leader.
Grow a pair, polish your boot, and maybe prepare to move on (emotionally and clan).
You should have kicked him long ago.. But even then he is not strong th9. He is terrible
Max defense with lvl 6 bk and you didn't mention aq lvl.. But I'll assume it's not double digit. It's weak to even new th9.
Walls are lvl7-8.. Troops not even th9 lvl.. Definition of rushed. That's not strong. That's just burden..
Most clans don't take max 9 without minimum 30 levels combined. Boot him now before he becomes more attached.
Few things you are wrong at.
1. As a co you shouldn't be donating 1 arch to golem war request. Not even as revenge
2. Mirror strat is great only below th7 or at max th8. Th9+ shouldn't be restricted like that.
3. Requesting best troop in clan is what anyone should do for war offensive cc. It's not leeching at all. Also you should stop analyzing how much de it costs to you for donating. That's not how it works for war. You want to win? Then be ready to spend. I and many others in our clan spend more than 8-10k de each war for just donation as max 9