Why are some co's valued more than others?

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Originally Posted by Jwp721

Sounds like your clan would be ideal for one of those day time tv shows where all the relatives come on and yell and scream at each other. Jerry Springer would be perfect. lol. If you really just want to play c of c with people who treat you with respect and look forward to when your online leave your current clan and find another non relative involved clan.

However I do know that some people are attracted to drama like a moth to a flame and just can't leave it behind either in the real world or the game world. It seems you have found a way to incorporate both.

This has nothing to do with c of c..

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No. No we wouldn't. We don't yell and scream at each other we just don't talk to each other. Asking if we fight or ignore each other before basically calling me a drama queen would of been more sufficient here. There's a big difference between 'families at war' and just avoiding each other lol. I don't ask for any kind of drama and I don't like it, it was my husband that got me playing the game and he just so happens to be in a clan with his family therefore if I wish to play with him I have to play with them too. We don't argue or anything so as far as I'm concerned the game has nothing to do with real life and if they treat it like it is well then that's their problem. Negativity instead of asking questions to find out information doesn't help any situation so perhaps rethink that one for the future? :)

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Originally Posted by XxSammyxX

Dang nothing I can do about that as he constantly stays a few levels above me
Nothing I can do about that one either lol
Another one I can't do anything about as I used my one name change :(
And I'm pretty sure my grammar isn't too bad.
Looks like I'm just going to be stuck in an undervalued rut :( thanks for your input though it shed some light on the situation :)

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its probably largely weighted on levels

people still kind of look on levels as experience or a lot of less active players will

try and donate a ton and overtake him in levels

How is your relationship with the other co? Is he threatened by your leadership? My hubby and I are in the same clan, both Co, and I was promoted after he was. He finds repeated questions irritating. It shut people down pretty quickly when he told them he isn't wasting his time repeating advice I had already given them. Since then, things have normalized. In turn, I don't try to give advice to players who are really above my skill level either.

Sorry, just realized i responded to older post....

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Originally Posted by hjennings69

its probably largely weighted on levels

people still kind of look on levels as experience or a lot of less active players will

try and donate a ton and overtake him in levels

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I agree with you fully, I'm sure that's what it is too. I'm working my butt off to catch up to him but so far not so good lol. Will keep trying though!

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Originally Posted by teladybug

How is your relationship with the other co? Is he threatened by your leadership? My hubby and I are in the same clan, both Co, and I was promoted after he was. He finds repeated questions irritating. It shut people down pretty quickly when he told them he isn't wasting his time repeating advice I had already given them. Since then, things have normalized. In turn, I don't try to give advice to players who are really above my skill level either.

Sorry, just realized i responded to older post....

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He's undermined me a few times so I don't think that's helped anything. Sick of arguing with him over a darn game tbh lol

Sammy use your attacking prowess in war and consistently 3 star! Your clan-mates will respect you as a co :) Also make sure to always have a positive attitude!! Gl :thumbsup:

Simply.... Being valued or respect is earned not asked. If you are r valuable enough in wars or donations, decent in words, attacks well and aside from Base comparison and progress. You will be valued or at least respected otherwise if u have traits like these and still he/she disrespects you... BOOT them. How can new players respect or value you if you tolerate it. Our clan doesn't doesn't aim for quantity of players we aim QUALITY.

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Originally Posted by DaOneNOnly799

Sammy use your attacking prowess in war and consistently 3 star! Your clan-mates will respect you as a co :) Also make sure to always have a positive attitude!! Gl :thumbsup:

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When a war eventually happens again I shall! Lol :D I try to have a positive attitude at all times it's just deflating when you get undermined, ignored and/or judged. That's life though lol ;)

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Originally Posted by Mackarov

Simply.... Being valued or respect is earned not asked. If you are r valuable enough in wars or donations, decent in words, attacks well and aside from Base comparison and progress. You will be valued or at least respected otherwise if u have traits like these and still he/she disrespects you... BOOT them. How can new players respect or value you if you tolerate it. Our clan doesn't doesn't aim for quantity of players we aim QUALITY.

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I have requested that they be demoted/kicked but the leader and the other co have no problem with them so they won't let me and if I just went ahead and did it they would demote/kick me in return :(

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Originally Posted by XxSammyxX

I have requested that they be demoted/kicked but the leader and the other co have no problem with them so they won't let me and if I just went ahead and did it they would demote/kick me in return :(

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Or simply just ignore him. Excel more and show them what you got. Maybe a little less drama. Or if he/she trash talks you and disrespects you ..... Find CIA coop for Intel and hire a gunman lol.