Exactly. Hence my point.
You don't get to label folks as pariahs because they didn't want to stick around for the war. If you have a good environment, good folks will tend to stay. Why should folks be punished for leaving a clan that is a bad fit for them, as soon as they realize that they didn't want to be there? More crucially, why would you want to punish the rest of your clan by forcing someone who is a bad fit and doesn't want to be there to stick around...!?
If someone is not going to be an asset to your group, you are better off seeing him in your rearview mirror as soon as possible. The reason for his unsuitability is irrelevant. Just keep in mind that rejection is a 2-way street...it can come from the applicant as well as the institution.

