A comment on leadership styles
There are several types of leadership styles. One is not right for all and anyone that claims others aren't good leaders because they don't share the same views is plainly ignorant. As someone that has lived a few years I've seen many leaders excel and just as many fail. Part of what makes a leader great is the people. If your leadership style works for them then they will stick around. Even Hitler had his loyal followers. If someone is more democratic than another's utilitarian style then they are just different. One is not better than the other and those that claim it is are just short sighted. I'm in a well run clan because how it's run suits my needs. Yours may be run totally different but that doesn't make it any less well run and rudely running another down just shows to a persons character or lack therein. There is nothing wrong with liking your style, but trying to force your style upon others is. That in the end is where you will always fail because it is a war you cannot win.