So you're embarrassed that you were "outed" as a gemmer by someone with poorer skills than you?
Sounds like it's YOU that has the problem and not the other person.
YOU want to hide your "shame" from other people so they take you seriously? You need to grow up and let your achievements speak for themselves (pun intended). If this person doesn't respect your opinion, they are not going take your advice even if you didn't gem.
As to your clan mates not defending you, why do they need to? Perhaps you should have asked your mummy to come over and tell him grow up.
Sorry if this sounds harsh, but you do seem to have the problems and not your clan mates.

