Originally Posted by
HayKittyCat
I believe it's up to the person doing the buying. IMO the term "raiding" was created here. Many, many people who play HD do not come to forums, and do not know what "raiding" (on HD) is.
When I first started playing, I would go to a RSS and buy what I wanted, never paying attention to how many items I purchased. I thought I was being nice buying what a person had for sale. I figured they put it out there to make money! Hey, when I go garage saling, I've yet to come across someone who told me "now be courteous to other shoppers and buy only 3 items from my garage sale" ;)
Then, I found the forums, and came to find the term raiding, and how it upsets so many peeps! So, I changed my buying style, not wanting to offend anyone. And that is my choice, I know I did not need to.
All that said, my buying philosophy is this: if I found your RSS thru the DD it's all up for grabs....I will buy what I want, and just might clear you out! ;). If I come to your RSS because you are a friend or neighbor, I do try to stick to the unsaid (or sometimes said loud and clear) 3 item maximum. Because I do like my neighbors and don't want to irk them! And sometimes I'll buy more from a friend or neighbor because I know they do not mind.
:). Each to their own style I say! :)