Originally Posted by
Strawfairy
Thanks for your responses! I was wondering WHY I like to play games instead of do work, and if I know WHY, I can try to put that attractive element into my work so that I will do work as diligently as I play this game. Playing this game is not necessarily easier than doing work (unless your work is to sell insurance). It is psychology that makes me prefer game over work. My work is taking care of the home and sort the paper. I have no patience for this "work". In the past I have used some tricks to make myself wash the dishes:
Trick 1 -- I imagine my kitchen sinks full of dirty dishes as earthquake sites, and I imagine myself a rescue team member. I think of those small items like spoons and forks as children, and I will pull them out from beneath, wash and "save" them. This way, my conscience will make me continue washing.... till the last big piece, which I REALLY dislike washing. But I tell myself, I have to get this fat lady out of here or else the opera can't end. And I just don't feel all right to save everybody but leave somebody behind. This trick still works; I tried yesterday.
Trick 2 -- I pretend that it is not my kitchen sinks; it is Strawfairy's kitchen sinks. My self-perceived image of Strawfairy, which used to be "a good person with a hard life" comes to mind, and triggers my sympathy. I ask myself: Wouldn't you be willing to help her out and make her lucky? The feeling of helping someone I love makes me do the work willingly, and the work is thus done. I will then go take a tea in the living room, feeling satisfied that I have helped "a good person with a hard life" and made her lucky. Later on, when I re-enter the kitchen to put away the tea cup I have just used, a magic happens here: I see the clean dishes on the kitchen island, and my feeling is "WOW! While I was busy helping a good person with a hard life, someone came and washed MY dishes!" LOL! This trick doesn't work so well now because I no longer think of myself as a good person with a hard life. My self image now is "someone plays too much".
Excuse my English with wrong tenses. Don't call the doctor; I am okay.